"A lot of people don't know that marriage comes with instructions," Cameron explained. "And, we find them right there in God's word."
Cameron stated that husband's are "to love their wives and not to tell their wives that they need to submit to them," but added that wives should not only respect their husbands but also follow their lead.
"Wives are to honor and respect and follow their husband's lead, not to tell their husband how he ought to be a better husband," Cameron explained. "When each person gets their part right, regardless of how their spouse is treating them, there is hope for real change in their marriage."
So to be clear the husbands should tell their wives to submit, the wives should just know to do that in order to keep the marriage together.
You know I'm twice divorced so I am the last guy to give marital advice, but it seems to me that if your relationship only survives because one of you is expected to shut up and do as they're told, then what you have is not really a relationship. Well certainly not a healthy one.
On a related note we could all still be enjoying the existence of
slavery if those uppity Negroes had only accepted the fact that the
white folks were in charge.