The things you find on Reddit. Today's topic: Incels.

Here is the post.

Gee, no wonder these guys have a problem with women.

I first heard this term "Incel" when somebody used it to label me.

I quite literally had no idea what they were talking about, but I looked it up:

Incel: aka "involuntarily celibate", a person (usually male) who has a horrible personality and treats women like sexual objects and thinks his lack of a sex life comes from being "ugly" when its really just his blatant sexism and terrible attitude. incels have little to no self awareness; even when they see other "ugly" men with girlfriends, they consider these men to be tricksters who have somehow beat the system and can get women despite being cursed with unattractiveness (in other words, theyre respectful to women and women are attracted to their personalities, but incels cant comprehend such a phenomenon). they believe that women owe them sex, and many of the more extreme incels like to spend time in incel communities on the internet coming up with ways to make women have sex with them (often involving genocide of people of color, genocide of "Chads" (men who have sex), taking rights away from women, raping them, having sex with women's dead bodies, and other horrid, disgusting things. they cant understand that that is PRECISELY why women want nothing to do with them).

Okay, well there are plenty of derogatory things I could be called, that might actually reflect my character in some way, but this ain't it. 

Apparently that recent attack in Canada is being blamed on one of these losers.

Men hating on women is certainly nothing new, and this does nothing more than put a new label on an age old problem.

For the record nobody owes anybody sex, or even affection.

Those are things you earn.

And relationships, no matter how awesome they may begin, often end with hurt feelings and even outright anger.

I have certainly been there myself. 

But to hate on an entire gender just because you are unlucky at love, is certainly never going to convince that gender that you are worthy of their time or affection.

You have to try to be a better you, before you can expect others to be a better them.

Another adult film star comes forward to backup Stormy Daniels' story of death threats, and to accuse Trump of misconduct and offering to pay her for sex.

Courtesy of the Daily Mail:  

A fellow porn star has backed up Stormy Daniels' claims that she was once threatened to stay silent about her alleged affair with Donald Trump. 

Daniels claims she was once threatened in a parking lot in 2011 after she told a tabloid about her affair with the then-real estate mogul. 

Now Jessica Drake, who claims she turned down a $10,000 offer to have sex with Trump after meeting him at a Lake Tahoe golf event in 2006, says that Daniels told her about the alleged threat on two separate occasions. 

'She actually told me about the threat twice,' Drake said, during her appearance on Good Morning America on Monday. 'So the first time she told me about the threat was shortly after it happened. She relayed the experience to me. I said something like, 'I'm so sorry, I can't even imagine. What are you going to do?"


The adult movie star described how she and Daniels met Trump at the 2006 golf event. 

Drake says they, and a third woman, were invited back to his hotel suite where he allegedly kissed them and asked them a number of questions. 

'We were ushered into the room,' Drake said. 'And I remember he was wearing pajamas. And he kissed all of us on the lips and kind of, you know, one of those real close, full-body contact hugs. I do believe 100 percent that he was vetting us to see which one or how many of us he liked.' 

Drake said the trio left but she later got a call from a Trump employee asking her if she would come back for $10,000. 

She says that while she refused, Daniels went back to the future president's room. 

I think this is at least the third, or perhaps fourth, woman who has come forward to say that Donald Trump offered them money for sex.

And she just one of over a dozen to accuse Trump of grabbing her and kissing her without permission.

Donald Trump clearly only thinks of women as sexual objects that he can use as he pleases any time he feels the urge.

 But then we already knew that, didn't we?

So about that Stormy Daniels interview.....

Courtesy of HuffPo: 

What’s important here is the way Trump and his circle of enablers went about trying to cover up these (alleged) affairs, while Trump himself was seeking the top political office in the country. 

Trump’s personal lawyer and his allies at the National Enquirer used nondisclosure agreements to silence these women, taking a page from the corporate playbook. 

NDAs are already far too common in the business world, used to paper over a host of misdeeds, most crucially sexual harassment and discrimination. Disgraced Hollywood producer Harvey Weinstein is perhaps the most egregious abuser of NDAs, which allowed him to harass and assault women for decades. 

“Donald Trump is acting like he personally owns this information, as though he can act like a king and take any measures to control the way people talk about him,” said Heidi Kitrosser, a professor of constitutional law at the University of Minnesota Law School. “You can’t do that when you’re acting with the power of the federal government.”

Now I will admit that is important to learn, but not so much because it reveals that Trump is a misogynist who controlled women with threats of lawsuits or used his wealth to buy their silence.

But what is most important about that is what Vox reported late last night: 

Stormy Daniels’ 60 Minutes interview was, in its way, fascinating. But it ultimately failed to shed light on the two most interesting questions posed by this entire imbroglio, presumably because Daniels herself doesn’t know the answer.

1. How many other sexual partners has Trump paid hush money to? 
2. How many foreign intelligences services know about one or more of those women? 

Trump has secrets that Trump regards as worth keeping. 

And while that put Daniels under pressure, it means that entities with more power and sophistication than an adult film actress can use those secrets to put pressure on Trump. The president has successfully cultivated an image as so flaky and incompetent, that his many baffling decisions on the world stage — from leaking Israeli intelligence to the Russian foreign minister to undercutting his own administration’s policy on Qatar to mysteriously leaving Japan off a list of allies exempted from steel tariffs — generally get written off as evidence that Trump is flaky and incompetent, rather than being actively manipulated by foreign actors.

Exactly!

Now I alluded to this last night in the comments section, because that is the truly relevant point that is being revealed with this interview, and the one Karen McDougal gave a few days ago.

Donald Trump's careless lifestyle has rendered him vulnerable to blackmail, and manipulation by just just about ANYBODY. And that includes foreign governments.

I am still in the first 100 pages of David Corn's book "Russian Roulette" but I have already learned that Donald Trump went to Russia a variety of times in the 80's, 90's, and 2000's, at least once at the invitation of the Kremlin.

We know that the Russian government has a habit of gathering embarrassing information on American celebrities and politicians that can be used later, yet Trump seems to have clumsily wandered into that lion's den on multiple occasions.

What's more, according to the book, Trump bragged to friends and associates that the Russian women were "without morals," which indicates to me that his interactions with them were less than dignified, and may in fact have been truly pornographic.

And of course all of this was talked about in that Christopher Steele dossier which the conservatives are so desperate to dismiss as "fake news."

So do I think there is a "pee tape?"

Hell, I think the pee tape might only be the first course in a depravity riddled sequence of DVDs which Donald Trump is desperate to see left buried until long after he has shuffled off this mortal coil.

And it was THAT probability which was driven home last night during this interview with Stormy Daniels.

P.S. By the way I would suggest that the trolls simply give up on trying to shame Stormy on social media.....

Yes, I am. Nice to meet ya! https://t.co/kUdVLRWwu0

— Stormy Daniels (@StormyDaniels) March 26, 2018

....it simply doesn't work.

Evangelical group releases document detailing "ethical" Christian sex practices. Spoiler alert: Gay sex is not on it.

Courtesy of Think Progress:  

Evangelical Christians are up to something new. 

At least that’s the position of many criticizing the “Nashville Statement,” a controversial document championing “biblical” sexual ethics that was penned this past week and signed by roughly 150 prominent evangelical leaders. The document, divided into 14 articles and released by the Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood (CBMW), mostly parrots denunciations of LGBTQ identities and relationships common among right-wing evangelicals. But it drew added attention for doing something unusual: extending their condemnation to Christians who affirm queer people. 

“We affirm that it is sinful to approve of homosexual immorality or transgenderism and that such approval constitutes an essential departure from Christian faithfulness and witness,” Article 10 of the statement reads. “We deny that the approval of homosexual immortality or transgenderism is a matter of moral indifference about which otherwise faithful Christian should agree to disagree.” 

The statement triggered outrage almost immediately, especially among LGBTQ and LGBTQ-affirming Christians who saw it as a direct attack on their understanding of the faith. Within hours, several progressive Christian groups issued their own counter-statements refuting the evangelical document point-by-point, with some deriding it as “anti-LGBTQ bigotry.” Faithful America, an online advocacy organization for progressive Christians, already has thousands of signatures for a petition rejecting the statement.

Essentially this "Nashville Statement" is just an excuse to attack teh gays and attempt to shame Christians who are not interested in vilifying their lifestyle.

By the way despite what many Christians have been taught the Bible only makes mention of homosexuality about six times, and it is not so much condemned as simply misunderstood.

It is this kind of repressive mindset that is pushing people away from religion.

Young people simply do NOT want to be told how and who to love.

Personally I enjoy watching the church prove that they are a primitive superstitious entity dedicated to shaming and manipulating their congregations. That has been my position since I was about ten years old.

However if the Christians really want their faith to survive, they might want to do a little thing called "evolve."

I know, ironic right?

FBI wants Alaskans to be on the lookout for human traffickers. I know just where to start.

Courtesy of the Peninsula Clarion:

“Even though this may be something that you say you don’t have in your community, you do have it in your community,” Special Agent Jolene Goeden of the Federal Beureau of Investigation said to a crowded room of hospital staff, local police officers and emergency medical services personnel on Wednesday at the Central Peninsula Hospital. 

“Traffickers know that they can make a lot of money in Alaska. … Many of the traffickers that we’re working cases on, that we know about, they move around Alaska,” Goeden said. “They don’t just work in Anchorage. They’re going to send girls down here to the Kenai area.” 

And it’s not just traffickers from Alaska. Goeden said that during busier seasons, traffickers from the Lower 48 move to Alaska.

“We have a number of traffickers that bring girls up for the weekends or weeks in order to work during periods of times that they know it’s more lucrative … during PFD times or the summer months when they know there are more tourists here,” Goeden said. “Big supply and demand.”

Well I don't have any personal knowledge of any current human trafficking for the purposes of sex, but I certainly know in which direction I would direct the FBI.

Might want to start somewhere around here.

I've heard some stories.

Former Trump campaign chairman in Kentucky charged with felony human trafficking of a minor.

Courtesy of Raw Story: 

A former judge now serving as a school board member in suburban Cincinnati has been charged with felony human trafficking of a minor, felony inducing a minor to engage in sex and a third count of giving alcohol to a minor. The indictment was obtained by River City News publisher Michael Monks, who described Nolan as an, “outspoken and controversial” political figure. 

Judge Tim Nolan of California, Kentucky represents District 5 on the Campbell County School Board. Yesterday afternoon he was lead into court wearing handcuffs as the “perp walk” was filmed by the local CBS station. 

News anchor Cammy Dierking of WKRC described Judge Nolan as an, “outspoken supporter of the local Tea Party.” 

The sex trafficking allegedly occurred in August 2016 — while Judge Nolan was serving as the chair of the Donald Trump campaign in Campbell County, KY. Trump beat Hillary Clinton 59% to 35% in the county while voters also elected Nolan.

Is it just me or does it seem to anybody else that just about everybody involved in the Trump campaign is being charged with a crime these days?

Gosh a family values, tea party enthusiast, Trump supporter, charged with trying to have sex with a minor. Who could have predicted it.

Well my hand's up, how about yours?

Oooh another Trump scandal. Wow, this one's bad.

Courtesy of the Daily Beast: 

The photographer says he attended Trump’s parties with one of the owners of the hair salon, Pierre Michel, that operated in both the Plaza and Trump Tower. The salon owner, Pierre Ouaknine, says his memories of those Plaza parties vanished after a recent surgery. But the photographer’s memories are crystal clear. Trump would take over “suites on the corners” of his hotel with views of Central Park and Grand Army Plaza, not to mention lots to look at inside, and wow his guests. 

The attraction for the men “was young girls assuming they’d get somewhere” by joining the party, the photographer says, “Of course, it never happens.” 

Young models were attracted to the fêtes with a simple, time-tested pitch. “You’ll meet rich guys who will help you,” says the photographer. “It was networking, but on a weird, bizarre scale.” 

The girls were as young as 15, he says, and “over their heads, they had no idea, and they ended up in situations. There were always dramas because the men threw money and drugs at them to keep them enticed. It’s based on power and dominating girls who can’t push back and can be discarded. There’s always someone to pick them back up. Nobody wants to call home and say ‘Help me.’” 

Trump would “go from room to room,” said the photographer, who added that “I was there to party myself. It was guys with younger girls, sex, a lot of sex, a lot of cocaine, top-shelf liquor” but no smoking. Trump didn’t approve of cigarettes.

Those men at these parties often knew each other. “It’s a small community,” the photographer says. “They exchanged information, facilitated each other. Trump was in and out. He’d wander off with a couple girls. I saw him. He was getting laid like crazy. Trump was at the heart of it. He loved the attention and in private, he was a total fucking beast.” 

The article goes on to point out that although there were ample amounts of cocaine at these parties that Trump himself never partook.

His drugs of choice were power and sex.

However the sources for the article claim that some of that sex was had with girls as young as fourteen years old.

Look we have all done things in our past to feel embarrassed about, but banging underage girls is typically not one of them. And especially not one that can be in the past of a man seeking to be the President of the United States.

Trump himself characterized those years like this:

Trump told me that consequence-free promiscuity was then his “second business… If I hadn’t got married, who knows what would have happened? You had drugs, women and booze all over the fuckin’ place.”

Gee that certainly lends an air of credibility to that 13 year old rape victim's story doesn't it?

Just a reminder that this photo destroyed Gary Hart's political career in 1987.

Hart was not accused of raping Donna Rice, he did not slut shame her, he did not sexually harass her, and really there is only minimal evidence that he even had a sexual relationship with her.

And yet back in the 1980's this was all it took to stop an extremely popular presidential candidate from winning the White House.

And just look where we are today.

Final quote of the day.

Courtesy of Mediaite:  

What broke up Trump’s first marriage? Harry Hurt III writes that Ivana ‘confided to female friends that Donald had difficulty achieving and maintaining an erection.’

Yeah I think most of us already suspected that this was probably the case.

To be honest a President with ED is not necessarily something that should trouble the voting public.

However the problem with Donald Trump is that his insecurities clearly are the driving force behind his decision making.

I mean why else would anyone always brag about the women that they bang, the money that they have, or put their name on every phallic structure that they can find?

We already had one terrible President trying to prove his manliness to his mommy, the last thing we need is another one trying to prove his sexual potency to the entire world.

Utah declares pornography a "public health hazard."

Courtesy of the BBC: 

The US state of Utah has become the first to declare pornography a public health risk in a move its governor says is to "protect our families and our young people". 

The bill does not ban pornography in the mainly Mormon state. 

However, it calls for greater "efforts to prevent pornography exposure and addiction". 

Pornography, the bill says, "perpetuates a sexually toxic environment" and "is contributing to the hypersexualisation of teens, and even prepubescent children, in our society". 

Further steps must be taken to change "education, prevention, research, and policy change at the community and societal level" against what it calls an epidemic, but it does not suggest how changes should be implemented. 

The bill was signed by Republican Governor Gary Herbert, who said the volume of pornography in society was "staggering".

Yeah especially in Utah where researchers found in a 2009 that it was the number one consumer of online pornography.

So you can only imagine how this new law will be received by the oh so Mormon residents.

When will these people learn that suppressing sexual expression is never the answer?

Adult site blocks North Carolina's access in response to anti-gay legislation. Okay now things just got real.

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Christian website claims that sex toys can open a demonic portal. Who knew?

Too many Christian women are losing their salvation because they masturbate. Dildos and all of those other sex toys have...
Posted by Eden Decoded on Saturday, April 9, 2016

According to the blog which you can visit here, marital aids or sex toys are capable of opening up a "portal between the demonic realm and your own life."

That of course is superstitious hogwash.

The real reason that Christians freak out about female masturbation, is that they do not like the idea of women having control over their own pleasure.

Fundamentalists especially want women to believe that without a man in their lives they will forever remain unfulfilled, emotionally, spiritually, and yes, sexually.

The idea that women are autonomous individuals who may or may not choose to love or be loved by a man shakes the very foundations of the patriarchal society that the Bible so aggressively tries to establish.

Remember nothing frightens an insecure man as much as an independent woman.

Could be the most effective stop Donald Trump movement yet.

Courtesy of NBC News:  

Donald Trump's support has only grown in the face of near-constant controversy, jaw-dropping gaffes and unrestrained displays of violence and racism at his rallies. 

But now a group of women is trying a new tactic to derail the GOP frontrunner — to swear off sleeping with or dating any man who supports Trump. 

The "Vote Trump, Get Dumped" movement invites women opposed to Trump to "Join us by wielding your influence." 

"Until Trump is defeated, we don't date, sleep with, or canoodle with Trump supporters," a manifesto on its website reads. 

Supporters are encouraged to post memes on social media of controversial things Trump has said about or to women, and to change their profile pictures to ones showing off their crossed fingers to signal they're offering "no access" to their bodies. The movement takes inspiration from the "sex strikes" in the ancient Greek play Lysistrata, in which the female characters withheld sex from their husbands in an effort to end the Peloponnesian War.

Personally I don't even understand why there has to be an official movement,  just the idea of sleeping with somebody who would support that misogynist POS should make women's legs snap together like a bear trap all by themselves. 

And though as a man I don't typically support any idea that restricts access to sex, I am behind this one a thousand percent.

Well I think this seems more than fair.

Courtesy of Time: 

A Kentucky lawmaker has introduced a bill that would require men who are seeking erectile dysfunction drugs like Viagra to be married, to get a note of consent from their wives, and to swear on the Bible to remain faithful. 

The legislation, penned by Democratic Rep. Mary Lou Marzian, is a symbolic attempt to prove a point about the government’s role in private medical decisions, she told Reuters on Monday. It has little chance of becoming law. 

It comes after Republican Gov. Matt Bevin signed an informed consent law that requires women to consult with a doctor before having an abortion. 

“My point is to illustrate how intrusive and ridiculous it is for elected officials to be inserting themselves into private and personal medical decisions,” Marzian, 61, told the news agency. “We need to stop it, we need to allow women and men to make their own decisions with their doctor and their family.”

"Swear on the Bible to remain faithful." 

Well we know there is probably not a "family values" politician in the country willing to take that pledge, don't we.

Ted Cruz attack ad on Marco Rubio pulled because of appearance by porn actress.

Courtesy of Fox News: 

Ted Cruz's latest political ad turned out to be too hot for TV. 

The Texas senator's campaign confirmed late Thursday that it had pulled a commercial hitting Florida Sen. Marco Rubio over illegal immigration because one of the actresses had previously appeared in pornographic films.

The actress, Amy Lindsay, as you might imagine is unhappy with this decision.

Extremely disappointed the #TedCruz campaign pulled the national television spot I had a role in... #moretocome #myvotecounts

— Amy Lindsay (@amylindsayLA) February 12, 2016

Boy they really screwed over this young lady.

Which is something that she is not used to because she only does soft porn.

Personally I am disappointed in Ted Cruz.

I mean here is this attractive young woman who has made a living bringing joy to men everywhere, and he degrades her by putting her in a sleazy political attack ad.

Now every time somebody sees one of her movies, instead of this...

they're going to see this.

And that could kill every boner in America.

Bill Cosby's attempt to have his sexual assault case thrown out has been rejected. "Hey, hey, hey, you're going to pay."

Courtesy of the LA Times: 

A bid by Bill Cosby’s lawyers to have the sexual assault charges against the entertainer dismissed was rejected by a judge here Wednesday evening, clearing the way for a potential trial. 

The judge, Steven O’Neill, said that he found “no basis to grant the relief request” by the attorneys. They had mounted a case over the last two days arguing that former Montgomery County Dist. Atty. Bruce Castor had made a non-prosecution agreement with the comedian’s lawyer more than a decade ago. 

Cosby has been charged with three felony counts of aggravated indecent assault stemming from a 2004 interaction involving drugs and alcohol with former Temple University basketball staffer Andrea Constand.

I am still not convinced that Cosby will face any jail time, but I think it will be cathartic for not only his victims, but all victims of sexual assault, to see that even money and fame cannot protect these assholes from justice.

I will predict that if Cosby is convicted of ANY of these charges that it will open a floodgate which will see multiple assault charges brought against attackers who their victims once saw as untouchable.

Tim Tebow screws up relationship by being too religious to screw. Currently unmarried and pregnant Bristol Palin tweets her support.

Courtesy of the New York Daily News:

 For once, it's not Tim Tebow who's having trouble scoring - it's his girlfriend. 

Confidenti@l is told the QB's model squeeze Olivia Culpo has dumped him after a two-month relationship - because he won't have sex with her. 

The former Miss USA, who was first reported to be seeing Tebow in early October, has told friends that she can't deal with the famously abstinent star's nookie-less lifestyle.

First off I really don't understand this whole marriage before sex thing, If I had adhered to that philosophy my sex life would never have been nearly as epic.

Secondly this is Olivia Culpo.

I know, right?

The only way religion would have kept me from having sex with a woman like that was if somebody were slamming me in the groin with the Bible every time I looked in her direction. And to be honest that probably would not have stopped me either.

Now as comical as all of this is, it gets even better.

You see former abstinence spokesperson, and current baby factory, Bristol Palin felt the need to offer her support.

Tim Tebow’s 5 reasons for not having sex before marriage https://t.co/3wcYxbO2ZO via @DaveWillis

— Bristol Palin (@BristolsBlog) November 30, 2015

Now it is of course possible, and probable, that this Twitter account is also controlled by Nancy French. But that in no way makes this any less bizarre and hypocritical.

In fact it makes it more so. 

Florida man arrested after shooting woman in the head during "freaky sex" and killing her.

Courtesy of WTSP: 

A man has been arrested after accidentally shooting a woman in the head while they were engaged in sexual activity. 

Just before 2 a.m. on Nov. 7, Tampa Police responded to a 911 call from Tyrone Fields who said he shot the victim in the head at the Regency Inn and Suites on Church Avenue. 

When police arrived they were met by Fields and saw Meagher on the bed with a gunshot wound to her head. She was transported to St. Joseph's Hospital where she later died from her injuries. 

Fields admitted to shooting the victim but said it had been during "freaky sex" with the woman and that he had only know her for two days. He said they were involved in a role-play scenario in which he put a gun to her head. 

Fields said he removed the magazine from his handgun but forgot to remove the bullet from the chamber so when he intentionally pulled the trigger as part of the role-play, he fired a single round into the her head.

The article goes on to explain that the woman was seen entering the room of her own free will and that the sex appears to have been consensual.

This is what happens when people start to see guns as harmless household items. 

Texas school teaches abstinence only sex education. Chlamydia arrives to teach them the error of their ways.

Courtesy of KRMG: 

The superintendent of schools in Crane, Texas is rethinking the districts sexual education curriculum, after learning that 20 of the high schools 300 students have tested positive for chlamydia. 

Jim Rummage told television station KFOR, "We do have an abstinence curriculum, and that evidently ain’t working. We need to do all we can, although it’s the parents’ responsibility to educate their kids on sexual education.” 

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention isn't mincing any words, calling the outbreak a health issue of epidemic proportions.

I love this part about the abstinence program, "That evidently ain't working."

Gee ya think?

There is already exhaustive research which proves that abstinence education does not work and yet due to mostly religiously driven fears sexuality people are still buying into the idea that telling a hormonal teenager not to let their naughty bits touch will actually work.

It does not work, and it never has.

Hell, I'M proof of that.

It is just too bad that so many of these kids had to come down with STDs before the adults in their lives were able to recognize their ignorance.

Christian website tells men to avoid looking at their wife's ungrateful faces while they are raping them.

Courtesy of Raw Story:  

A Christian website that gives advice to couples about how to live by the Bible’s “gender roles” recently advised men that they should not look at their wives’ faces during sex if she engaged in intercourse “begrudgingly.” 

In a column on the BiblicalGenderRoles.com website last week, a writer going by the name Larry Solomon argued that men “should not tolerate refusal.” 

According to the Christian columnist, women who did not like having sex with their husbands should “fake it until she makes it.” 

But Solomon noted that coercing wives into sex did not always result in an enjoyable experience for the husband. 

“You also need to realize that whether your wife knows it or not she needs to have sex too,” he opined. “If you don’t have sex with your wife at regular intervals, even sometimes when she is not in the mood but consents anyway, you will open yourself to temptation.” 

“Focus your eyes on her body, not her face. Focus on the visual pleasure you receive from looking at her body and physical pleasure you receive from being inside your wife,” Solomon recommended. “You want to connect with her physically AND emotionally during sex. But your wife is the one refusing to connect with you emotionally, so you have to concentrate 100% on the physical side.”

Yes of course it is the woman's fault if their husband cheats on them. God forbid that men be responsible for their own actions when it comes to sex.

Okay true confession time.

I was once in a relationship with a woman who was raised in a strict religious home, whose first husband, also a Christian, routinely had sex with her whether she was in the mood or not.

She did not actually consider it rape or sexual abuse at the time but it definitely screwed up her feelings about sex.

I am not going to go into much detail here because that is ungentlemanly, but it is safe to say that when she realized that she was allowed to feel pleasure it changed virtually everything. As did learning that she was allowed to say no, and to pursue sex when she wanted it and not just when her man told her "to give it up."

I don't know about other men but I am completely uninterested in having sex with a woman who is not interested in having sex with me.

The entire idea of forcing myself on anyone is completely foreign to me, as it should be to ALL men. And women too for that matter.